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I feel like I should give you my avatar. :lol: I only lived at home or in my house. I'm super sensitive to people being annoying so I'm guessing that's probably for the best. The first time someone told me to turn down my movie or something I would lose my mind. :P
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NickAragua wrote: Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:25 pm but I cannot tell you how much I despise "associations" and "management companies"
i will agree here. my experience with management companies are like a typical company HR department - people who are not the sharpest tools in the shed who, due to liability paranoias, will go to any lengths to ignore/disavow/be dishonest about/argue with you over anything that could possibly reflect badly on them or the company. they're at the bottom of the totem pole but have a tiny modicum of power manipulating the well-being of others, so they take advantage of that. if i have to move to a new place, i always look for one _not_ managed by one of these outfits and go with a private property owner instead.

at my previous place, it was a private property owner, but he did away with the onsite property manager after she moved out and went with a management company. they sucked. one rep got into a petty email exchange with me because they changed to a 'no pets' policy - contrary to the property owners intention! (to be fair, the owner was kind of an idjit as well, since he didn't want to go against whatever the property management place dictated. in any case the place was sold not long after and the new owner wanted my unit, so i got kicked out)
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I have been on the other side of the HOA formula, and I can tell you that trying to get scofflaws to obey the rules with the board of directors and other owners breathing down your neck is equally nightmarish.
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Jaymann wrote: Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:42 pm I have been on the other side of the HOA formula, and I can tell you that trying to get scofflaws to obey the rules with the board of directors and other owners breathing down your neck is equally nightmarish.
Sure, which is why it's better for everyone involved if I just don't interact with that type of organization at all.
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We are dealing with a high wind storm this afternoon into tomorrow morning - at least in my part of NJ. Every time there is high wind I cringe because it means damage. The weather the last few years has been a real financial drain. Today it took a piece of my front bay window. Now I have to get on top of fixing that because it exposed the bare wood of the join that makes up the corner. The joys of home ownership meets the new reality.
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Jaymann wrote: Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:42 pm I have been on the other side of the HOA formula, and I can tell you that trying to get scofflaws to obey the rules with the board of directors and other owners breathing down your neck is equally nightmarish.
Given the ridiculous prices here in the LA area there is no way I'd ever buy a house where people were free to do whatever the hell they wanted with their house including doing nothing, not keeping their house up, peeling paint, and other craziness. Nope, my property values will not be ruined by idiocy and laziness.
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Octavious wrote:Not sure about your town, but the one guy I work with has to pay to get his garbage taken. He's in Boonton I think. I wonder how long before every town does that will still charging more in taxes. :lol:
Of course we have a “garbage fee”, along with a separate “sewer fee”. The garbage fee was particularly offensive because one of the conditions of our town agreeing to have a dump and incinerator in our town was that the county would cover our garbage collection.

So we have a garbage fee, even though the town doesn’t actually pay for garbage collection.
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NickAragua wrote: Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:50 pm
Jaymann wrote: Fri Apr 30, 2021 3:42 pm I have been on the other side of the HOA formula, and I can tell you that trying to get scofflaws to obey the rules with the board of directors and other owners breathing down your neck is equally nightmarish.
Sure, which is why it's better for everyone involved if I just don't interact with that type of organization at all.
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My property taxes in CT are more than double the highest number mentioned here so far...and we have high income tax, sales tax 6.35%, and one of the highest gasoline taxes in the country. My state sucks, and I can't imagine how someone on a "normal" income lives here. I'm lucky enough that my salary can pay all the taxes with plenty left over.
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My wife thought about selling when things broke. She always cited the lack of needing to mow or pay utilities and property taxes. I was always against it citing We pay less on the house than we would an apartment and its about our's again fully. I also REALLY hate living near people and my life and property depending on them not burning it down. Plus theres always the chance of being shot through a wall or neighbors or even a landlord using their key to enter my home.

Prefer having my own place where I do what i want basically when I want and can turn music up when Im depressed. After this year I have only 2 1/2 more years until Im paid off and out of debt.

But yes we BOTH fussed about property tax. It really isn't something anyone likes I dont think..I can count mine in the hundreds of dollars though not thousands.
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We pay around $4,000 for our modest house (1,100 sq ft). For that we get robust town services and a very good school system. As a geezer who never had kids, I'm still OK with them blowing most of my property tax on education.
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Isgrimnur wrote: Wed Apr 28, 2021 3:41 am We have two bathrooms for three people. Twice is the number of times I've pooped in my back yard in the past six years.
Let's just say that I didn't make the backyard this time.
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Isgrimnur wrote: Sun Dec 05, 2021 6:11 pm
Isgrimnur wrote: Wed Apr 28, 2021 3:41 am We have two bathrooms for three people. Twice is the number of times I've pooped in my back yard in the past six years.
Let's just say that I didn't make the backyard this time.
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I grew up in a house with one shitter and 10 people. I've watered the foliage there before, never fertilized though.

My current house is 3 shitters and 4 people. I've never been denied. Should that ever happen, it would be time to have a 4th built out in the basement.
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Sorry, señor bam. :(

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I used to pee on the plants outside.
I killed them.
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dbt1949 wrote: Sun Dec 05, 2021 6:38 pm I used to pee on the plants outside.
I killed them.
In high school, we used to party at a late friend's girlfriend's house. They only had a single facility too (old Victorian house) and the weeds behind the garage grew to about 8 feet tall.

You must have some pretty toxic pee.. I bet there's some weed control places that would like a word with you...
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Daehawk wrote: Fri Apr 30, 2021 10:30 pm But yes we BOTH fussed about property tax. It really isn't something anyone likes I dont think..I can count mine in the hundreds of dollars though not thousands.
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the widow/widowers exemption which reduces the assessed value of your property by $500. This provides a tax savings of approximately $12 annually. Any widow/widower who owns property and is a permanent Florida resident may file for this exemption. If the individual remarries, they are no longer eligible.
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One bathroom, four people. Everyone knows the rules.

1. Get in, get done, get out.
2. Let people know if you're going to take a shower so they can get in first.
3. If you wait until the last minute to go, it's your own damned fault.
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I was looking at the floor plan for the house my wife bought in Ormoc. 53 sq meters of floor area (two floors). 2 crappers though, so I shouldn't have to cross the road to water the banana plant like I had to do at my in-laws.
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Jaymon wrote: Mon Apr 26, 2021 5:39 pm or have more than 2 cats.
This is what will I think ultimately convince me to one day purchase a home (if I can afford it)
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We've had basement flooding, so we're having a team in to install a sump pump in our 150-y.o. house.

They have to dig up some of the basement floor, so I'm hoping to discover a cache of pirate gold or a manuscript of MOBY DICK.

Also, if you're wondering: no, it's not cheap. :(
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Holman wrote: Mon Dec 06, 2021 9:26 pm We've had basement flooding, so we're having a team in to install a sump pump in our 150-y.o. house.

They have to dig up some of the basement floor, so I'm hoping to discover a cache of pirate gold or a manuscript of MOBY DICK.

Also, if you're wondering: no, it's not cheap. :(
Do you live in an area with a high water table?
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Philadelphia was a swamp until they filled it in to build. It was...not a pleasant place to live.
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That's why they moved Hogeye to the top of a mountain.
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Drazzil wrote: Mon Dec 06, 2021 10:39 pm
Holman wrote: Mon Dec 06, 2021 9:26 pm We've had basement flooding, so we're having a team in to install a sump pump in our 150-y.o. house.

They have to dig up some of the basement floor, so I'm hoping to discover a cache of pirate gold or a manuscript of MOBY DICK.

Also, if you're wondering: no, it's not cheap. :(
Do you live in an area with a high water table?
The house is actually on top of a broad hill, so we'll never actually flood, but the local topography sends heavy rain into our basement.
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Sounds like you need a moat.
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coopasonic wrote: Mon Apr 26, 2021 11:03 am
LordMortis wrote: Mon Apr 26, 2021 7:46 am ... My furnace was a lot cheaper than I thought it was going to be. $900 for a 1000 sq ft home (five years ago?) and I got a tax break and it's saved me a ton of money
And I've paid $18k to replace two furnaces and two A/C units in the past 8 months.

But yeah owning a home is about not have upstairs neighbors, always having a parking space, having the room you need and the freedom to make it your own.

33 years from purchase to payoff seems a tad (really, really) long, but interest rates are so low, why not? We bought our first home in 2000 refinanced once then trading up when our second kid was due in 2009, refinancing twice and should be paying off in 2024. We bought a $168k house in 2000 and now own 90.38% of a $473k house (per zillow. It feels really high but the market is hot right now). I am often tempted to just pay it off as we have the cash on hand, but I'd rather have the emergency fund for things like those damn HVAC units.
I gave in. I sent a little over $30k to the mortgage company this week as it was all sitting in cash in my etrade account and the opportunity I was looking for just wasn't happening, so I put it somewhere slightly more useful. After that payment, with our Feb payment, the balance will go to zero and we'll need to remember to pay our property tax on our own for the first time ever! We will finally own our home.

Oh and Zillow says it's worth $580k now. :P
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